Glad to be of assistance…
Or at least to aide in the merriment of your son.
May he outlive you and bring many more years of fulfillment.
I have not decided whther to present my son wiht the poem.

@James, yours to your son inspired mine to my son! (I emailed it to him last night and he says it made him laugh.)

You didn’t want no birthday gift
You didn’t want no card
But anyway, time’s flying swift
Hope you don’t mind just one card.

You’ve aged one more year, old man
You’re becoming very senior
Better find a girlfriend soon
And better this year than next year!

So here’s your little birthday cake
Please don’t smash it on your face
Here’s to wishing you another year
But you’re not too old, don’t fear!

Happy 18th Birthday!
(To my GodDaughter M)

When you were a baby
You crawled downstairs
Headfirst, smiling.
You still plunge boldly.

When the young babysitter
Couldn’t calm you,
Sometimes I could.
I was more familiar, perhaps.

Now you surprise me with love
Just because I’m your Godmother.
And you don’t treat me
Like an old lady.

I have forgiven you
For throwing things at my cat.
You were only a toddler.
(Mind you, it took a while.)

We read each other’s
Journals and blogs.
What we find there
Stays between us.

You like to write, like me.
You like to sing; I’d like
To have a voice for singing.
We rib each other and laugh.

Today you’re 18, old enough
To toss down a legal Jack Daniels
And have consensual sex –
If you could figure out who with.

You’re old enough to vote
And drive a car. The time
Is now. What was it you wanted
To be when you grew up?

Happy Birthday To A Wonderful Son

Thank you for being a wonderful son.
Thank you for not exploding yourself
That time you put a match
To the not-quite-empty petrol barrel –
But merely singeing your eyelashes off.
They and the missing patches of hair grew back.

I can still see your tiny naked feet
Running happily across the lounge-room carpet
Leaving footprints of brown fence paint.
You were so delighted that you’d been smart
And taken all of your clothes off before
You decorated your whole body. So was I.

You always had such a kind heart.
When you were only a few years older,
Your father’s workmate Ron was truly amazed
To see his new car, parked in our driveway,
Improved by a free paint job – the brown again.
(Of course, you did have some help from other kids.)

At only 11 you found true love
And for years afterwards stayed in your room
Playing with your instrument: your first computer.
As the years passed, your father and I
Began to wonder if you’d still be there at 50.
But then at last you discovered girls.

Along the way you made luscious Pavlovas,
Gave me helpful hints on my driving skills
And refrained from killing your little brother.
You were still a toddler when you begged
From the back seat of the car, “Mummy and Daddy,
Please don’t sing.” No doubt it was good advice.

We’ve had great talks at times. You’ve always been
Wise, thoughtful and understanding. I like that you like
Writers whom I like too and share my taste in theatre.
I like that you now tell me which books are good
And which shows. And even your furious corrections
When I forward the nuttier emails that go the rounds.

And it’s very sweet of you not to publish too many
Of the poems and stories you write. It would never do
To show up the lesser talents of your mother, or my lesser
self-critical faculties…. Finally, I can’t believe you’re 42!
Or ourselves already so Senior. I’m sure you’ll be pleased
To know we’ve decided to move in with you next week.

Very timely for me too – Firstborn Son turning 42 and Third GodDaughter turning 18 on this very day (Sept. 12 now, where I am).

Get back to ya after I’ve done ‘em proud.

But come, and be merry!
Today we are (told to be) happy and free.
We look about and proclaim everything
A winter Wonderland,
Even the glistening doors frozen shut
And the icicles spearing the new-fallen snow
Which was heavy, by the way,
And blocking the path to my car,
Which I liberated from its tomb,
To buy this card.

Now’s the time for gratitude
If you want to get your present
Before the reindeers trample it.
When I say the snow was heavy
I mean the snow was heavy.

Well…

I thought I’d never see the day.
You’ve survived another year.
What an amazing accomplishment!

You have not killled yourself,
despite the incredible stupidity
which is natural at your tender age.

Your friends have not killed you
despite their many attempts
with their insanely dangerous games.

And I, even I have not killed you,
and believe me I have wanted to…
Remember the car? The couch you set on fire?

You’ve survived another year.
So how about we celebrate
your amazingly grand acheivement!